Meet your shopper
Hi, I’m Libby.
I’m the one who picks what goes on this site, writes the guides, and answers every “Ask Libby” message myself. I’m bi, a bit queer, thirty-something, and I’ve spent years being the friend people text at 1am with “is this normal?” (it is) and “what should I buy?” (depends – tell me more).
What this place is
A shop, obviously – but I wanted it to feel like the friend who’s already done the awkward research so you don’t have to. Kinks aren’t problems to fix; they’re things to enjoy safely and, ideally, with someone who’s happy you’re there. If you’re nervous, that’s normal. If you’re not sure what you’re into yet, that’s normal too. You’re welcome here either way.
What I won’t do
Pretend I’ve personally tried all 145 things on this site. I haven’t, and anyone who tells you they have is selling something. What I will do is tell you honestly which ones I’d pick for you, which to skip, and what to pair together – and a handful are genuine favourites of mine, which I’ll always flag as such.
How I choose what we sell
- Body-safe first. Silicone, glass, stainless steel, ABS. If it’s porous or smells like a swimming pool, it’s not here.
- Does it actually do the job at that price? A £25 toy that works beats a £90 toy with an app you’ll open twice.
- Kind to beginners. Sizes, controls and materials that don’t punish you for being new.
- Discreet by default. Plain box, plain statement, no branding on anything that arrives at your door.
A few of my faves
- Wireless Love Egg – the one I recommend most for couples who want to play from across the room.
- Pinpoint Pen Wand – small, precise, quiet, and the answer to “I just want one good vibrator”.
- Silk-Bound Shibari Rope – the gentlest way into bondage; soft on skin, forgiving on knots.
- Set of Bondage Restraints – the beginner set I’d hand to a nervous couple.
- Waterproof Bullet – under £25, fits in a wash bag, does more than it has any right to.
Ask me anything
Genuinely. Tell me what you’re curious about and I’ll come back with three picks within 24 hours. Or start with the 60-second quiz and see what comes up.
Libby x