Dildos

Realistic, non-realistic and fantasy designs, in silicone and glass, across a full range of sizes — suction-cup bases, harness-compatible options, and plenty in between.

Size, and being honest about it

Girth matters more than length for comfort. A shorter, thicker toy is a bigger ask than a long, slim one, and almost everyone underestimates this on their first purchase. Measure something you already know works and use that as your reference point rather than guessing in inches.

Materials

Body-safe silicone is the default: non-porous, warms to body temperature, easy to sterilise. Glass is firmer, entirely non-porous, and takes temperature beautifully — run it under warm or cool water first. Avoid anything porous unless you’re using a condom with it every time; porous materials can’t be properly cleaned, whatever the packaging claims.

Bases and harnesses

A suction cup opens up hands-free use against a flat surface. A flared base is essential for any anal use. If you’re pairing it with a harness, check the base diameter against the O-ring size rather than hoping.

Lube

Water-based with silicone toys, always — silicone lube degrades silicone. With glass, anything goes. The lube guide covers the combinations.

Discreet as standard

Plain, unbranded packaging and a card statement that gives nothing away.

New to this? Read materials and sizes and body-safe basics.