Description
Libby’s note
Who it’s for: Confident couples who want wrists and ankles held open. Not subtle. Wonderful.
Skip it if: You want something discreet or beginner-gentle. This is a statement piece.
Pair it with: Blindfold, PU Leather Crop, and an honest conversation about limits beforehand – consent and safewords.
Not sure it’s right for you? Ask me – I read every message myself and I’ll tell you honestly if something else would suit you better. – Libby x
A rigid bar with cuffs at each end, holding wrists or ankles apart. Spreader bars do something different to rope: they do not stop you moving so much as decide the shape you move in.
Good for
- Couples ready to move past cuffs alone
- Anyone who likes enforced position over full restraint
- Standing or lying scenes
Worth knowing
Rigid bars make falling over a real possibility – do this somewhere soft, and never leave anyone restrained and unattended. Agree a signal before you start; the safewords guide covers non-verbal options for when a gag is involved.
