Honest, jargon-free guides — no upselling, no purple prose. Written to be genuinely useful whether or not you buy anything.
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New to all this? These four cover the ground in about ten minutes.
Best Sex Toys for Beginners: 8 Picks Under £35Libby’s shortlist of first toys we actually stock, who each suits, and what to skip.Read guide →Best Sex Toys Under £30 (Free UK Delivery)Ten picks worth the money, grouped by budget, with three sensible £30 bundles.Read guide →A Beginner’s Guide to Body-Safe Sex ToysWhat to look for, what to avoid, and how to choose something right for you.Read guide →Bullet vs Wand vs Rabbit vs SuctionFour shapes compared side by side, including the most common regret for each.Read guide →Sex Toy Myths, BustedTen things you have heard that are wrong — including the one about desensitisation.Read guide →Materials & Sizes: A Quick GuideWhat toys are made of and how to pick the right size — without the guesswork.Read guide →
Choosing a toy
Type, fit and what the specs actually mean.
A Guide to Vibrator TypesBullet, wand, rabbit or suction? A plain-English tour to find your match.Read guide →Choosing a Strap-On & HarnessHarness styles, waist sizing and matching the O-ring to your toy. Fit is everything.Read guide →Lingerie Fit Guide, Including Plus SizeThree measurements, one honest size chart, and why adult sizing runs small.Read guide →Understanding Lube: Water, Silicone & OilWhich lube works with which toy — and which combinations to avoid.Read guide →Budget vs PremiumWhat extra money actually buys, where cheap is genuinely fine, and the upgrade path that wastes the least.Read guide →
Kink & BDSM
From the vocabulary to your first kit, and the conversation that comes first.
Kink A–Z: A Plain-English GlossaryAftercare to shibari — every term explained, with no jargon and no gatekeeping.Read guide →How to Choose Your First BDSM KitA gentle, practical intro to kink — what to buy first and how to play safely.Read guide →Consent, Negotiation & SafewordsHow to start the conversation, what to cover, and what to do when it goes sideways.Read guide →The Yes / No / Maybe ListThe single most useful tool in kink, and it costs nothing. Printable starting point.Read guide →Sensory Play 101The most accessible way into kink — blindfolds, texture, temperature and touch.Read guide →Nine BDSM Myths That Deserve to DieNot all pain, not damaged people — and safewords make the mood possible. Folklore, dismantled.Read guide →Your First Year of KinkA realistic month-by-month roadmap from first conversation to real confidence, mistakes included.Read guide →
How to
Practical, step-by-step, safety-first.
Anal Play for BeginnersThe whole thing, in order. Go slowly, use more lube than you think, start smaller.Read guide →Prostate Play for BeginnersWhere it is, what it feels like, and how to start safely. Plainly, without the myths.Read guide →Sex Positions for Toy PlayChosen for reach, angle and actually being able to hold a toy without cramping.Read guide →Crossdressing & Femme PresentationPadding, breast forms, safe tucking, packers and sizing — no assumptions attached.Read guide →Sex Toy Care & Cleaning 101Keep your toys hygienic and lasting for years with this two-minute routine.Read guide →The Toy Cleaning ScheduleAfter every use, monthly deep cleans, and when a porous toy is due retirement. Printable.Read guide →
Shopping with us
What happens after you click buy — and where you stand legally.